Aishna turns 2!!
Ahh my sweet angel turns 2 today. Happy birthday dear Aishna!!
Cant believe its been 2 years ...seems like yesterday when i was holding you for first time in operation theatre. A tiny little angel who could fit on my hand ( I have pic!!) and now who is tall enough to start gas burner :P.
This blog is just a reminder to her and myself that life is going to change after today.I cant call her baby anymore :( . she is officially entering into world of comparisons, benchmarks and lots & lots of milestones. But dont worry her dad & mom are there to help her and love her. Now is the time she will be officially under quiz about her physical and mental milestones. No matter how much we all wish but you cant avoid being compared. Better embrace it and overcome it. Be it a common place like garden,school or your house - it will be series of Age vs other kids vs Aishna.
Life for aishna has been quite different . From giving us all a big scare when she was insider her mom ( Ankita) and then to reach 2 years it is quite a journey. We have come long way and still it is just a beginning.
I will confess to aishna that her mummy has been a rock solid support as compared to her dad.
I have been nervous about her health, milestones so much that sometimes i have missed lovely moments with her. They say kids love and emotions are purest and if you need any proof please see video of aishna giving hugs and saying ""huggie"".
I was wondering what should i gift to aishna on her birthday...Everything i do it is for my family..especially her. So buying a small doll seemed redundant.i wanted to give her promise that no matter what happens next , her daddy is going to be strongest and relaxed for her. We have been through all kinds of doctors and all kind of google pages searching for answer. Sometimes every symptom fits aishna and sometimes none of them .in general doctors have said that she lags in milestones but assured us that everything is normal but still we need to monitor. My guess is that coming year is going to decide her progress speed and learning abilities.
In general I think i will be always concerned - i think thats what parents do..if kid is fine ? health is good ? learning is good ? in school if marks are low then ..is friend circle good ? is she going to good college etc etc.. at any point there are so many IF's and what IF's that you skip enjoying to fullest the current day. Kids need our love and affection and that is my promise to aishna that her dad loves her and is going to enjoy every moment with her. All hyperbole positive statements about love and wishes come with a statutory warning that It is not possible everytime. All you can do is give your best effort :)
and daddy is going to give his BESTest shot to be there for her and love her.
Love you Aishna to the moon and back.
Yours
Papa
P.S : As per every birthday ritual there is secret envelope waiting for you. You will get those letters on your 18th bday :D
Cant believe its been 2 years ...seems like yesterday when i was holding you for first time in operation theatre. A tiny little angel who could fit on my hand ( I have pic!!) and now who is tall enough to start gas burner :P.
This blog is just a reminder to her and myself that life is going to change after today.I cant call her baby anymore :( . she is officially entering into world of comparisons, benchmarks and lots & lots of milestones. But dont worry her dad & mom are there to help her and love her. Now is the time she will be officially under quiz about her physical and mental milestones. No matter how much we all wish but you cant avoid being compared. Better embrace it and overcome it. Be it a common place like garden,school or your house - it will be series of Age vs other kids vs Aishna.
Life for aishna has been quite different . From giving us all a big scare when she was insider her mom ( Ankita) and then to reach 2 years it is quite a journey. We have come long way and still it is just a beginning.
I will confess to aishna that her mummy has been a rock solid support as compared to her dad.
I have been nervous about her health, milestones so much that sometimes i have missed lovely moments with her. They say kids love and emotions are purest and if you need any proof please see video of aishna giving hugs and saying ""huggie"".
I was wondering what should i gift to aishna on her birthday...Everything i do it is for my family..especially her. So buying a small doll seemed redundant.i wanted to give her promise that no matter what happens next , her daddy is going to be strongest and relaxed for her. We have been through all kinds of doctors and all kind of google pages searching for answer. Sometimes every symptom fits aishna and sometimes none of them .in general doctors have said that she lags in milestones but assured us that everything is normal but still we need to monitor. My guess is that coming year is going to decide her progress speed and learning abilities.
In general I think i will be always concerned - i think thats what parents do..if kid is fine ? health is good ? learning is good ? in school if marks are low then ..is friend circle good ? is she going to good college etc etc.. at any point there are so many IF's and what IF's that you skip enjoying to fullest the current day. Kids need our love and affection and that is my promise to aishna that her dad loves her and is going to enjoy every moment with her. All hyperbole positive statements about love and wishes come with a statutory warning that It is not possible everytime. All you can do is give your best effort :)
and daddy is going to give his BESTest shot to be there for her and love her.
Love you Aishna to the moon and back.
Yours
Papa
P.S : As per every birthday ritual there is secret envelope waiting for you. You will get those letters on your 18th bday :D
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